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Welcome to Masturbation Ecstasy, where everyone is encouraged to develop and explore their secret, erotic fantasies in the realm of the masturbation-stimulated imagination.

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Masturbating, for extended periods of time, mixed with orgasm denial along the way, releases unusually high levels of natural organic endorphins. Vast reaches of time and space are covered in a typical masturbation session. This creates heightened feelings of euphoria, wild erotic fantasies and intense orgasms, always ending in a state of extreme calm and well-being, a feeling that is beyond peace, making it with this group, the preferred drug of choice.

The simple fact is that 2 out of every 5 adults actually prefer masturbation to sex. After all, human masturbation is, truly, one of the miracles of the universe. Masturbation is the gold standard to which all forms of sex are subconsciously compared with. When one consciously chooses masturbation over partner sex, they elevate themselves to a higher plane, where they are truly open and able to enter into an uncommon, deeply platonic relationship with a very special person. They have all too often found that traditional partner sex and traditional partner relationships are quite time-consuming and tend to muddy the water, with both often becoming disenchanted over time. And the process is repeated again, and again, and again. And they're tired of the endless cycle.

This is why a masturbation addiction, in many ways can set you free: More free time to spend with friends and family, more free time to volunteer in the community, and more essential "Me" time to enjoy quiet relaxation and rejuvenation, and time to seriously consider entering into a part time platonic relationship.

Here you are free to share your erotic ideas, as well as discover new ones, with an approving group of like-minded masturbation aficionados. We truly feel that we have outsmarted Mother Nature, and achieved a level of erotic satisfaction that most can never comprehend. And, as we all know: The stranger the fantasy, the stronger the orgasm.

Those post-masturbation depressions are completely eliminated when one has a Masturbation Soulmate who gives unconditional acceptance, praise and encouragement. And with masturbation, two constitutes an orgy.

We have taken masturbation, the most basic of biological functions, and elevated it to an art form. We have not really gone full circle on this, back to our youth, but feel that we are at the start of a new frontier of autoerotic adventures, joining in with intimate fellowship with like-minded masturbation aficionados.

Welcome aboard, as we celebrate our lifelong masturbation addictions, in a virtual opium den, of glazed and dazed masturbators.

 

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Masturbation can be practiced in symbolic, religious, value laden, and other ways and, if desired, derive unification experiences and other profound non-sexual experiences from engaging in it. The stroke of midnight, New Year's Eve, or winter, or summer, solstice, or, during a minute of national, or international, silence -a time, maybe better spent silently writhing in orgasm. Practiced, in some, circles, as a Focused Orgasm, when one consciously suppresses the body's natural love song and silently and rigidly visualizes, for example, world peace and harmony, while stroking themselves through their orgasm in the usual manner. It is believed, by some, that a simultaneous, collective, Focused Orgasm, has a powerful and desirable effect on the world.

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15 Ways To Practice Self-Love:

Mind

1. Write yourself a love letter.

2. Make a list of 10 things you're grateful for.

3. Buy yourself a bouquet of flowers.

4. Re-read your favorite book.

5. Create a vision board for your dreams.

Body

6. Have a pamper session and treat yourself to a manicure/pedicure.

7. Take a 30-minute walk in nature.

8. Take a long relaxing bubble bath.

9. Try relaxing yoga or an empowering workout.

10. Nourish your body with a healthy home cooked meal.

Soul

11. Create loving, positive affirmations for yourself.

12. Slow down, be present and mindful.

13. Make a list of 10 things you love about yourself.

14. Unplug for a whole day from any tech.

15. Meditate.

Why Do Empaths Have Such a Strong Sense of Not Belonging?

First of all, an Empath is a person who can psychically tune in to the emotional experience of a person, place or animal.

And as most visitors to this site prefer masturbation to partner sex, and prefer elevated platonic love to bothersome, earthy traditional partner relationships, we are in a position to be more open, more in tune to explore higher levels of intuition and awareness.

In the paranormal and in fantasy, highly developed empathy is a psychic ability to sense the emotions of others and often highly aware of the health and state of mind of their loved ones, no matter how physically near or far away the individuals may be.

Too many Empaths go through life feeling like they do not belong. It is as though they have been dumped in a reality that is not a fit for them.

So why is that?

Even before we discover who we are, as Empaths, we can feel like a giant square peg trying to squeeze into a tiny hole.

We look around at those who glide through life, following the rules laid down by society, who appear contented with the way the system operates and who slot in with others effortlessly.

Even if they are unhappy, they never seem to question anything, nor find fault with "the way things work." We may wonder why is it so easy for them to "fit in" but not for us?

There are several reasons for this "sense of not belonging" the Empath has, one of which being the way we "feel."

Considering the main trait of an Empath is being able to feel as well as experience the emotions of others, you would think this would give us a greater connection to those around us.

But that often is not the case.

We can tell when another is feeling nervous, when one is angry or sad.

We can feel when someone is being untruthful, or when they are pretending to be something they are not, we can even pick up on the physical pain of others.

We may understand another by how they feel, but it does not mean we like or accept their ways, and it does not stop the sense of alienation we feel.

The gift of the Empath is to feel both good and bad.

Granted, not everyone would consider the ability to experience the emotional energy of every Tom, Dick and Harry as a gift. In fact, some would say quite the opposite.

But it is who we are and it is what we feel that sets us apart.

Most Empaths only come to discover who they are, as a Sensitive, after an intense awakening or by going through challenging times.

And because of this rude awakening, we may struggle to deal with our emotions and the emotions of others. We may take on too much and then, as a result, suffer with overwhelming fatigue and a host of other strange anomalies. Being around people is then not tolerated well and we need to spend more time alone. Which only further intensifies this "strong sense of not belonging."

Although we cannot see it at the time, these dark trying times are like an initiation. They are meant to happen and they are meant to challenge us in the most hideous of ways, which also happens to set us further apart from the world.

As Empaths, we have to go through the dark to find the light.

And what is meant by this is when we endure difficult times and work to change ourselves for the better, we become better people. Dark times are precursor to change.

The good that comes to us in life is often the result of something bad happening.

But still, that does not really answer the question of why so many Empaths feel like they do not belong here.

Although we are all on a journey with our own lessons to learn, many believe we have the sense of not belonging as a way to prevent us from standing still.

We are meant to keep moving forwards, we are meant to continue to learn, and unlearn, and seek out our own truth. And in searching for "our place" in life, and a sense of belonging, it keeps us working towards bettering ourselves in every way.

We become stronger, healthier, our empathy increases and we eventually come to the point where we stop looking outside ourselves for answers and go within.

Society is constantly dictating to us, trying to tell us how to think, how we should be educated and what we need to make us happy.

But what society tells us will make us happy often will not, and the Empath knows that, even on the surface level, most do not realize this truism.

We are not all supposed to look, think and feel the same. We are each unique, evenas Empaths, and we are meant to have our own experience of discovery. But we are lied to all the time and made to feel insecure and insignificant.

It is hardly surprising when, as Empaths, we feel like we do not belong. We sense the hidden lies, and manipulation, all around us, which makes finding "our truth" an even greater challenge. It is hard to feel right in a world where everything sometimes feels so wrong.

The strong sense of not belonging can even be attributed to us not belonging to ourselves.

There is, however, a silver lining, because the farther down this road we walk, the more sense the journey makes. As long as we keep working on ourselves, keep believing in ourselves, listen to our inner-voice and our own truth we will see it and come to understand the reason for all that we feel.

You may not fit in with the outside world, but as long as you fit in with you, you will find your place and your sense of belonging, to be true to yourself.

Good things do not happen overnight, but they do happen.

Wishing you all the best for the year ahead. We hope this year brings you health, happiness, and harmony.

30 Signs You Were Born To Be A Spiritual Healer

"The powerof a healer stems not from any special ability, but from maintaining the courage and awareness to embody and express the universal healing power that every human being naturally possesses."

- E. Leventhal

At heart, we all have the capacity to heal ourselves and nurture others. Spirit, energy, thought, intention, skillful practice and belief are available to all people. Yet as individual expressions of the life force, we all have different paths, and not all of us feel called to healing practices.

For those of us that do feel called to spiritual healing, we are often met with some kind of resistance, either from our friends, our family members, or our culture. This is because spiritual healing can be frowned upon as a quasi, scientifically-misguided, charlatan practice by a society that is built on the mind and ego. While there are con artists in every practice, the genuinely beneficial aspects of spiritual healing are largely ignored because they cannot be quantified or reasoned with.

Unfortunately, this has led to a large percentage of us (particularly in Westernized societies) losing touch with traditional forms of healing. Very few of us were raised around shamans, medicine men or medicine women who could pass on ancient knowledge and holistic healing practices. Instead, as children we were taken to General Practitioners, physicians and doctors who prescribed us with medications of all kinds. And while these medications were useful and helped to fix certain parts of us, they never aided us in healing our whole organism with its many layers.

Yet despite the way you were raised, you might still feel a strong pull towards spiritual healing, even if it goes against the grain of what you were taught.

So are you a spiritual healer? Let us find out.

If you are a spiritual healer, you will sense it deep down.

You might feel like an old soul who does not quite belong in this time or place, an empath who feels everything too deeply, or quite simply an outsider who cannot seem to properly integrate into society.

Somehow spiritual healers have always known that they were a healer. As a child, they were thoughtful, inquisitive, dreamy and extremely nurturing. Many remember caring for the kids at school, caring excessively for their toys, caring for stranded insects that got caught in spider webs and caring a whole lot about the bigger picture in life.

Spiritual healers also remember playing with energy, having precognitive dreams, being hyper-sensitive to the physical and emotional environments around them and somehow always attracting wounded people into their life.

Spiritual healers come in many shapes and forms. For example, some fulfill their role as a spiritual healer through their writing. Other people fulfill their calling through practicing reiki, kinesiology, yoga, meditation, hypnotherapy, psychotherapy, herbalism, acupuncture, EFT, group auto-erotica, and a whole range of other practices.

Spiritual healers are shamans in their own right. They are people who allow the energy of Spirit to flow through them in a way that guides, rejuvenates and empowers others.

The spiritual healer is also a wounded healer. In other words, by healing themselves, they heal others. This is the absolute best kind of education available.

Are you destined to be a spiritual healer? Here are 30 signs that will help you find out, and some of these might surprise you:

1. You are highly sensitive to energy.

2. You feel the emotions of other people and physical ailments as your own (empath).

3. You are intuitive and can read others very easily.

4. You are a big picture thinker (and do not concern yourself too much with the details).

5. You have gone through bouts of existential depression.

6. You have felt like an outcast for most of your life.

7. You think differently from others.

8. You get overwhelmed in public easily.

9. You have struggled with anxiety or panic before.

10. You are the natural peacemaker between people.

11. You are the confidant that people turn to in times of need.

12. You experience digestive issues, lower back pain or gain weight around the stomach (solar plexus chakra disorders).

13. You feel drained after spending too much time around people

14. Sensitive beings like animals and children gravitate towards you.

15. Other people tend to dump their emotional baggage onto you to deal with.

16. You think in shades of grey rather than in black and white.

17. You are very aware of the interconnectedness of life and deeply respect it.

18. You believe in synchronicity more than coincidences.

19. You have a history of healers in the family: nurses, psychologists, massage therapists, etc..

20. You have experienced a major trauma in your life: loss of your family, life-threatening illness, near-death experience, physical/sexual/emotional abuse, war, mental illness.

21. You have gone through a spiritual awakening.

22. You have experienced the dark night of the soul.

23. You tend to use the right side thinker more than a left side thinker.

24. You experience chronic pain in your body or an auto-immune disease (energetic blockages).

25. You are EMF sensitive (electromagnetic hypersensitivity).

26. You tend to attract people who need fixing but often get trapped in self-sacrificing roles.

27. You are an excellent and compassionate listener.

28. You are naturally drawn towards healing professions that help others experience balance and wholeness.

29. You can feel, distinguish between and alter the energy within and without yourself.

30. You have had numerous mystical experiences.

How many signs in this list could you identify with? We may have missed a few signs of the spiritual healer here. If you think we have, just contact us and make a suggestion.

As a healer, the best possible place you could start is with yourself. As the proverb goes: Physician, heal thyself! Starting from within first is the best way to ensure that you have enough energy, passion and love to give to others.

Here's an interesting experience from one of our readers:

Zen and Mutual Masturbation!

Recently, we packed in light, fold-up, low reclining web beach chairs and a bottle of wine, as we walked from the trailhead on a warm afternoon until we encountered and keenly sensed a vortex of spiritual energy, in an isolated and less traveled area in the redwood forest. And we both knew this was the spot.

Undressing from the waist down, both of us eased back in our comfortable beach chairs. Facing each other, we presented ourselves to each other, talked, smiled, and uncorked and sampled the bottle of wine. In preparation for this very special event, both of us had refrained from sex and masturbation for over a week.

Easing back and comfortable, bathed in ethereal energy, we began masturbating, still sipping on our glasses of wine. Totally glazed over, lost in our fantasies and carefully taking our time, both of us eventually achieved intense orgasms, falling into a deep sleep afterwards.

The early evening almost caught both of us by surprise, but there was enough natural light under the dense forest canopy for us to make it back to the car.

- Jenelle

 

And don't forget that a masturbation adventure into the blinding light of fantasyland, regularly, will also relax and rejuvenate you. Although a session may last only minutes, vast reaches of time and space are covered in the realm of the masturbation-stimulated imagination.

One fantasizes best during masturbation. And can focus better on their own sexual fantasies and pleasures than when they are distracted or interfered with by the presence of a partner. As in the case of fantasy, one's learning to focus is transferable to actual sex acts with their partner.

In masturbation, one is able to engage in much longer periods of arousal and, especially, focus on the intense, near-orgasm experience (edging), than they would ever experience in distracting, partner sex. For masturbation aficionados, this is the payoff, a truly mind-altering state. The experience is more intense, with more deeply satisfying forms of arousal and orgasm than is likely with their regular or special partner. The end result is a state of unconsciousness that is beyond peace.

Masturbation can be the answer, and a crucial element, in many forms of ritual space. Only masturbation can be highly ritualized, from start to orgasm, throughout the entire process.

Or, you and your lover simply desire to experience a higher, spiritual form of intimacy. Mutual masturbation is an intimate ritual, a rite of passage to a higher plane of transcendent-erotic lovemaking.

Masturbation Tips for Your Zodiac Sign:

Discover what the stars say about how you like to masturbate, as well as suggested techniques for each sign.

Like the universe itself, the study of astrology is vast and complex, but all you need to know to deduce your sun sign, which represents your personality and quintessential character traits is your date of birth. So, how can this knowledge help you get off, and which is best for you?

While many have explored how the 12 zodiac signs flirt, partner up, and even get it on, so now it is time to get a little more personal. While playmates are surely fun, there is nothing quite like the exhilaration of self-sex, and astrology can teach us about that, too. That is right, Cosmic Warriors: Your sun sign can help you identify your personal masturbation style.

By studying each sign's distinctive proclivities, we can explore the myriad of approaches to personal pleasure. While some signs relish theatrics and grand flourishes in their "me time" (Leo, Scorpio), other signs prefer more practical, to-the-point euphoria (Cancer, Libra). Certain signs are aroused by new and exciting environments (Sagittarius, Pisces), while other signs are thrilled by cerebral foreplay (Gemini, Aquarius). Some signs use masturbation as an opportunity to build tension (Taurus, Capricorn), while others delight in an expedited climax (Aries, Virgo).

In addition to relieving stress and simply feeling good, masturbation can be a soulful act.

However you choose to masturbate, astrology can help guide your hand, literally. Ahead, discover what the stars say about how you like to masturbate. Sit back, relax, and prepare to get in touch with your astral approach to self-stimulation.

Aries (March 21 - April 19)

Aries is the first sign of the zodiac. Known for their passion, enthusiasm, and impulsivity, these thrill-seeking fire signs want to be the best at everything, including self-pleasure. When it comes to masturbation, they do not want to get bogged down by complicated fantasy scenarios or clunky gadgets. Goal-oriented Aries look to maximize their pleasure in the most efficient but also exciting way, igniting their flame through direct and precise touch directed straight toward their pleasure centers.

Taurus (April 20 - May 20)

Tauruses are known to be the most epicurean sign of the zodiac. These seductive earth signs enjoy tactile experiences that tantalize the senses through touch, sound, taste, and sight. Ruled by Venus, the planet of love and beauty, Taureans are most turned on by physical manifestations of romance. When it comes to self-gratification, Tauruses seek a fully luxurious experience. Lighting candles, running a warm bath, or applying a deliciously scented moisturizer (or lubricant) is the perfect foreplay for pleasure-seeking Tauruses, who seek to set the stage even when solo.

Gemini (May 21 - June 20)

This mercurial sign is represented by the twins, symbolizing the multiple interests and passions of Gemini. Aroused by spontaneous play, these fun-loving air signs are renowned for their nonstop energy, high-speed communication style, and out-of-the-box thinking. They're always intrigued by new and innovative ways to get down. It is no surprise that when it comes to masturbation, Geminis preferred approach to pleasure is always evolving. Gemini should switch up their solo dances frequently, incorporating a range of toys and techniques into their masturbation practices.

Cancer (June 21 - July 22)

Cancers are symbolized by the crab, and accordingly, they use their tough shells to protect their sweet, sensitive interiors. While these water signs safeguard their emotions in daily life, their biggest thrill is letting loose: When Cancers are comfortable enough to remove their protective layer, they delight in exposing their raw emotions and feelings. For Cancers, self-gratification is a multidimensional process. Sensual crabs take time to explore their bodies, building heat through progressively more intense caresses. These sensitive creatures should frequently carve out time to connect with their bodies, paying extra attention to how the lunar cycle impacts their libidos (Cancer are ruled by the moon).

Leo (July 23 - August 22)

Regal Leos are the rulers of the zodiac jungle. When it comes to sex, these extravagant lions love to show off, even when they are alone. Leos are notorious for their larger-than-life personalities, irrepressible creativity, and charming flair for the dramatic. These theatrical fire signs love an audience, and their biggest turn-on is being desired. Leos may want to explore watching themselves while masturbating, either by gazing into a mirror or filming their solo adventures.

Virgo (August 23 - September 22)

Virgo may be known as "the virgin," but do not be fooled by this misleading association: These earth signs are obsessed with sex. Virgos' favorite sexual fantasies often involve a mundane activity transforming into a carnal romp. Ruled by Mercury, the planet of communication, these analytical lovers are deeply aroused by intellectual exchanges and mischievous wordplay. They may find themselves especially turned on by literotica.

Libra (September 23 - October 22)

Ruled by Venus, Libras are the aesthetes of the zodiac. These elegant air signs are recognized for their charm and sophistication. In turn, they are suckers for seduction and glamour. Libras pay close attention to their surroundings, and so ambiance is critically important to their enjoyment of masturbation. Before Libras explore their anatomy, they should take a few moments to adjust the lighting, queue up the perfect erotic playlist, and indulge in a few deep breaths to clear their minds of distraction.

Scorpio (October 23 - November 21)

Scorpios and sensuality go hand in hand, and this notorious sign is known for its enchanting eroticism. Named for the elusive scorpion, this water sign dwells in the shadows, fearlessly pursuing dark and taboo passions. Unafraid to push boundaries in the bedroom, Scorpios love experimenting with power and control. They should play with rhythm and breath in their masturbation practices, varying the pressure and speed of their touches as they build intensity.

Sagittarius (November 22 - December 21)

Fiery Sagittarians are known for their fun-loving, thrill-seeking dispositions: These archers are tantalized by new and exciting experiences, both in and out of bed. As aroused as they are by adventure and risk, Sagittarians like to experiment with their sexuality in public spaces. If they live alone (or are sure to be alone for a while), they might try masturbating somewhere they never normally do, say, on the living room couch or the kitchen floor. Mixing up the timing of their self-stimulation (for example, with a quick morning masturbation session before work) can also provide Sagittarians the variety they crave.

Capricorn (December 22 - January 19)

Capricorns are the bosses of the zodiac, and these hardworking earth signs do not mess around when it comes to pleasure. Despite their stoic demeanor, Capricorns are among the kinkiest signs. These ambitious goats approach sex with dedication, determination, and erotic intensity. After a long day of work, masturbation is an excellent way for Capricorns to relax, unwind, and explore the depths of their hedonism. Indeed, Capricorns love to release, and then release again.

Aquarius (January 20 - February 18)

Aquarians are the revolutionaries of the zodiac. Celebrated for their innovation and eccentricity, these distinctive air signs enjoy seeking out diverse sexual experiences. Rebellious Aquarians hate to be told what to do and tend to find rules extremely oppressive. Accordingly, Aquarians love experimenting with self-pleasure, as it gives them the freedom to explore their bodies and minds without external limitation.

Pisces (February 19 - March 20)

Pisces are the last sign of the zodiac, and these ethereal water signs are known for their intense psychic abilities and mystical powers. Represented by two fish, these sensitive creatures reflect the depth and breadth of the expansive ocean in their incredible ability to absorb emotions and experiences. Sexual pleasure is intense for empathetic Pisces, and many of these mermaids use orgasms as a tool to trigger spiritual awakenings. Masturbation for Pisces is transcendental, connecting body and soul. Pisces should experiment with aquatic pleasure, indulging their passions in the bathtub, shower, or even the ocean.

Here's an incredible, yet true story of how we almost masturbated with others, in a large group setting!

My girlfriend and I enjoy a wonderful masturbation addiction and regularly masturbate together, as a very private event. But we have never even considered joining in any of the wild co-ed masturbation orgies that are sometimes hosted at some of the secluded retreats in our region, in California.

But years ago, in celebration of National Masturbation Month (always in May), both of us went to a large local movie theater to watch a featured masturbation video and listen to a live lecture afterwards, by Dr. Carol Queen, the star of the self-made video. The event was sponsored by Good Vibrations, a local masturbation-theme chain of stores.

The free-to-the-public event was a complete success and the theater was filled to capacity, with all types and all ages of people, and equally distributed men and women. Young people, our age, staffed the reception area, warmly welcoming everyone, passing out programs and flyers, and answering questions. They were a mix of Good Vibrations employees and volunteers. And all of them were embarrassingly outgoing, enthusiastic and talkative about their masturbation addictions.

After things settled down, Dr. Carol Queen ascended the stage and warmly welcomed everyone, giving a brief introduction before the lights were dimmed. On the large screen pre-recorded video, Carol (in her 40's at the time) was nude, facing the camera, with thighs wide apart. Smiling and working herself like a pro, she shamelessly masturbated all the way to an intense orgasm, to the applause of the enthusiastic live audience.

After the video finished, and as the excited crowd settled down, Carol returned to the lectern and took the microphone, and enthusiastically talked about masturbation as the biggest thrill of all -truly great sex! She then said that, if she had her way, would invite everyone in the crowded theater to undress from the waist down and everyone would masturbate with her -all the way to an orgasm!

The response from the crowd was a loud, noisy, ecstatic standing ovation. Smiling, she had to, again and again, tell us: "No, no, we really can not legally do that tonight" before the crowd settled down, back in their seats.

Both of us smiled at each other and held each others hand. We knew exactly what each other was thinking. We would have, at that time and place, stripped down and masturbated, then and there, if Carol had just been brash enough. You had to have been there, to truly understand that she really had that crowd charged, and the experience, with that group, would have been wonderful. It simply felt right, and we would definitely have "done it."

Back in our car, we were both overwhelmed about what had almost happened that night in the theater. Instead of heading over to a local coffee shop to kick back and happen upon some locals and friends, we decided to head home and enjoy a private mutual masturbation session. We both achieved unbelievably intense orgasms that left us glazed and dazed afterwards, totally wasted and happy, and both ready for a good nights sleep.

And while we are still uncomfortable with the idea of participating in a real group masturbation orgy, we just wanted to point out that, under the right conditions, such an event could be both fun and incredibly heartwarming.

- John

Divination

Divination is the practice of seeking knowledge of the future, or the unknown, by summoning the supernatural spirits that lurk and swirl around us, a systematic method with which to organize what appear to be disjointed, random facets of existence, such that they provide insight into a problem or quest at hand.

We felt it necessary to include this section on our Better Ways To Masturbate page, as avid masturbators ascend to the higher levels of consciousness and enlightenment, and tend to plan and ritualize their masturbation sessions. We have taken back our bodies and rediscovered, enhanced and nourished our spirit. And throughout this website we have provided the basic tools to get you started.

Some masturbators may consult with the oracle of Tarot Readings, I-Ching or Rune Casting before their masturbation sessions, while others choose divination consultations immediately after achieving an intense orgasm, while they are in a depleted, euphoric state, completely free of earthly desires and temporarily open to the spirit world.

If a distinction is to be made between divination and fortune-telling, divination has a more formal or ritualistic element and often contains a more social character, usually in a spiritual context, often seen in archaic medicine. Fortune-telling, on the other hand, is a more everyday practice for personal purposes.

Particular divination methods vary by culture and religion. And while divination is dismissed by the scientific community and skeptics as being superstition, it still remains as an essential, often ritualized experience for those who deeply desire to add spice, mystery and deeper meaning to their lives.

Do not be quick to make light of those who practice Tarot Readings, I-Ching or Rune Casting today. Never underestimate the wily, astute soothsayer who can quickly assess the personality, character and background of their client, intently listen to their specific quest, and then de-code what they are told and succinctly distill it down to its essence: the very private, yet true desires of that person. Instead of a direct response, the soothsayer will always carefully craft an answer in the form of a cryptic, yet telling, oracle. Runes, tarot cards, crystal ball, all these props, these materials are really, in the end, immaterial.

Divination, if not offering us deep insights into the hidden structures of the cosmos, then certainly exposing the secrets if the human psyche and a method of communicating with divinity -the god (or goddess) within each of us who embodies our pure consciousness and inward spirituality.

For those of you who are new to this, here are some excellent links to free online divination experiences: Tarot Reading, I-Ching, and Rune Casting, more than enough to get you started on a lifetime of spiritual-erotic experiences.

Enjoy!

Tarot Reading

To know what will happen your immediate future, take a decision, anticipate the highlights of your future and know the impulses that shape your life, this online tarot reading is there to help you. This read gives you a clear and precise answer.

To receive your reading, choose the erotic universe in which you are looking for an answer.

This online Tarot is there to help you, to bring you a careful and particular light on the coming days. You will be provided with some interesting insights.

You're now going to find out the results of your Tarot reading. It's essential to consider it as a personal guide which will help you fine-tune your way of dealing with things and your strategies for achieving your emotional aspirations.

This Tarot reading will enable you to turn things that happen in your love-life into definite assets and channel your energies and ways of behavior towards your objectives, rather than free-wheeling through life.

Tarot really does give you an accurate vision for several reasons: the complex symbolism of each Tarot card enables you to focus on all the details of your future love-life and thus arm yourself with useful pointers.

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I-Ching

The I-Ching is considered the oldest known divinatory art. Developed in China, more than 3000 years ago, its principles still stand strong!

Its purpose is not to predict the future but to help you make decisions. It is a valuable guide that suggests concrete solutions to your questions.

Indeed, the I-Ching is wonderful when you hesitate on a path to follow, an attitude to take, a choice to make, a dilemma to solve. It answers all your questions like: "Should I take the plunge?" "Should I dare to seduce?" or "Is this my other half for life?"

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Rune Casting

Runes represent a system of wisdom, power and clairvoyance. With their origins in Celtic mythology, Runes are made up of an alphabet that was used by the Druids and priests of former Germanic or Nordic tribes and are a very effective divination tool. The Viking runes typically consisted of a collection of small, flat stones with a letter of the Viking alphabet (or rune) painted on one side, in human blood. Shaken in a pouch, the stones were then scattered on the ground. The oracle of the runes would then begin.

The last masters (both men and women) of Viking rune casting died out in seventeenth century Iceland and with them died the secret oracle of the runes. Using a resurrected interpretation of the runes today enables us to face and deal with problems, as well as unveiling the secrets of energy and harmony.

Runes work wonderfully well when you hesitate about which path to take, attitude to adopt or choice to make, as well as in resolving dilemmas. The analysis of runes, stone by stone, is both precise and to the point, leaving no room for doubt.

Rune readings will enable you to identify future developments. We know that what you experience today follows on from the way you have lived over the past. It is therefore important to know what influences have a bearing on your future. You will ultimately know where you are heading and understand the consequences of your actions.

How a rune cast works:

So that you can obtain the best possible answers to your questions, you are offered a 3-rune reading, which will tell you whether you will have a chance of fulfilling your current aspirations. Runes are easy to use for asking questions, as the runic alphabet is made up of 24 letters (or runes), to which is added a twenty-fifth rune (WYRD), which has no written form and plays the role of joker.

Before you do your runes reading, you will need to concentrate fully, because runes require clear and precise questions to be able to give a coherent response. Clear your head completely and focus with intensity on what is preoccupying your mind, but avoid formulating a question that demands a yes or no answer. You will then discover the message that will help you follow the right path.

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Remember: No fantasy, and no sexual desire, is too strange, too unusual, too weird, too improbable, or too kinky, when it comes to masturbation. Psychologists have labored for years to explain to us that strange and weird erotic fantasies are, in fact, completely normal and healthy, as long as they're acted out in the imagination -and not in the real world. Also, this frees you to do (fantasize) about anything you want, without having to explain it to a bewildered partner. One is encouraged to let themselves go, and completely cater to these desires in the world of self-pleasure. And never forget: The stranger the fantasy, the stronger the orgasm. Just be sure to buckle your seatbelt!

We are human miracles. Each one of us is perfectly unique. We can pick our clothes and hairstyle... and choose the way we look. But we have absolutely no control over what turns us on. That's why masturbation is so incredibly good. It connects us with our pure, hedonistic impulses. We WILL be consumed by it. Recognizing that fact, let's make it an honest, shameless and healthy celebration of lust and fantasy.

Consciously choosing masturbation over traditional partner sex will elevate one to higher planes of consciousness. And just one of these is Out of Body Ecstasy: Energy enhancement, sexual play, and sexual satisfaction that involve the use of your mind, your energy fields, and your senses only. Out of Body Ecstasy utilizes astral sex, dream sex, and telepathic sex, to connect to another person/energy/soul anywhere in the Universe.

Out of Body Ecstasy is a crucial part of the experience of those who aspire to visual imagery and experiences that are above the mundane. In many ways, elevated and refined levels of masturbation are proving far superior to transcendental meditation. For obvious reasons, this truism is not openly discussed and advocated in the inhibited mainstream of public consciousness, but the personal benefits are there, just the same. Masturbation assisted transcendental meditation is the new metaphysical frontier of the 21st century. In masturbation assisted transcendental meditation, abstract and spiritual thoughts are better focused on and elevated to higher levels, when skillfully and carefully stroked along.

Why Art and Masturbation Are Very Much Alike

The arts enjoy enormous prestige in our society, while masturbation certainly does not. And yet there are some fascinating correlations between the creativity, focus, and skill involved in both processes.

The classical theory of the arts -and masturbation, holds that life will never provide absolute perfection. And the task of the artist, and the masturbation aficionado, therefore is to edit reality, and then visualize and compose an ideal, from the raw material of life.

In the arts, that which is dispersed in reality, is beautifully gathered into one. There is something of the same maneuver in masturbation, but the fantasy we're masturbating about may not so neatly appear in one place in life, but where we can skillfully condense, correct, combine, and add and subtract, we enable ourselves to get to our goal. Masturbation is, in many ways, art's equally created sibling, and truly one of the miracles of the universe.

Check out this short (5:17) video that succinctly conveys what true, mindful masturbation is about:

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Enjoy!

Here's another hot, erotic experience from one of our readers:

I originally posted this ad in CraigsList Missed Connections but I received no response, although, honestly, I never expected one. But here it is, as some of you just may find this to be quite erotic:

"To the woman I happened upon, masturbating in her car"

I know this is a shot in the dark, but just maybe there's a chance it's you reading this now.

I found the incident wildly erotic, have thought about it, and I'd like to make contact with you, although it's unlikely you have any desire to do so.

As we both know, it happened in a park in the San Francisco east bay, and I caught you by surprise (I was wearing a red shirt and khaki pants). You were obviously shocked, but remained motionless as I walked by. During my trail walk I had accidentally approached you from the front-passenger side and got a full view. In that brief moment you also clearly saw me: 60s, lean, fit, active and handsome. I'm also fun-loving, middle class and educated.

You were wearing sunglasses, probably to help you lose yourself in the blinding light of fantasyland, or a precaution to pleasure yourself, incognito. But the sunglasses probably obscured your awareness of your surroundings.

But you seemed to be a class act, a quality woman. Your earrings, necklace and bracelets complemented your light sweater with pulled-up sleeves, and pulled-up skirt, and your busy hands with rings and painted nails stood out in stark contrast to the fact that you were unwaxed, wild and untamed down there.

Judging by your complexion, you seemed to be middle-aged, maybe a senior. Your physique was pleasant and appropriate for your age. Your ethnic identity was not obvious, and really not important.

You didn't start your car up and drive away, so I assumed you gave a sigh of relief and slowly went back to pleasuring yourself. There were no other cars in the area so it's understandable why you expected privacy, with no interruptions.

While I am quite conversant with many people and in any social situation, I didn't dare make eye contact with you. And I never would, under the circumstances.

But honestly, I'd like to connect with you, as the experience both haunts and intrigues me, and I've had recurring hot masturbation sessions over this.

- Michael

These amazing self-sex spiritual experiences can be embraced and practiced by anyone: From the novice to the advanced alike at any time: Morning, noon or night at anyplace: During your daily commute, on an airplane or lying on the couch. No special skills are needed, no extra equipment required. Physical distance and/or physical limitations do not interfere with the experience. By incorporating basic techniques, you will discover a shift in your life that attracts an abundance of positive people, and opportunities to you.

And here's yet another fascinating and creative experience from one of our readers:

Second Life Virtual Reality Meetups:

The Second Life online virtual reality gardens and parks are beautiful and relaxing, with breathtaking scenery, complete with the soothing background sounds of birds, running water, and wind chimes.

My long distance boyfriend and I live over 1,000 miles apart, and our online Second Life meetups serve our needs quite well.

But nudity and open sex are not allowed in many places. So to get comfortable, we also appear in Second Life undressed down to our underclothes. What we do is simply walk over to a favorite spot, sit down, and chat with each other until we decide to retreat into quiet seclusion, to our separate, private real-life bedrooms to masturbate.

At that time our avatars will post a "Away. Do Not Disturb" message and drop their heads in a motionless trance. Any visitors who happen upon us, and are inquisitive enough to check our profiles, will be informed as to exactly what we're doing, with a link to MasturbationEcstasy.

Both of us have previously gathered here for a 1 to 2-hour chat/masturbation sessions, and no outsiders have wandered in on us in our secluded spot (well... as far as we know). After we simultaneously orgasm to the clever "30 Minutes to Orgasm" soundtrack, we return back to our online garden spot to resume our chat, before later retiring for the evening, for a good night's sleep.

- Megan

Out of Body Ecstasy offers more than explosive orgasms, improved health, and positive attraction. It offers connection, a profound sense of belonging. No matter if you are in a relationship or single, this can help you reconnect to your partner or find someone new, like your twin flame or soul mate.

In this way, even star-crossed lovers can consummate their affections for each other, by agreeing to simultaneously masturbate together in spirit, although hopelessly separated or apart.

Out of Body Ecstasy will most certainly put your sex life back on the radar.

Our website embodies our personal experiences. All tips and techniques in our website have been successfully tried and our readers have also had successful results.

After spending time on our website you will advance to a higher plane of erotic adventures: Such as searching for a special place to masturbate, especially in the wilderness, we often sense a heightened, yet subtle vortex of magnified spiritual energy that radiates, only at certain areas. And we are careful to stop and have our masturbation orgy, then and there, when we encounter it. And the mystical feelings resume when we return to that special site at a later date.

Here's another interesting experience from one of our readers:

Night Stick!

Those of you who already know my feelings on these matters, I generally feel that masturbation toys and vibrating gadgets get in the way of fantasy-based orgasms, which are most intense when skillfully teased along with light finger action only. But as a woman, there are those rare times, 3-4 times a year, when hot sex with my boyfriend, and even my skilled finger masturbation, just won't do.

Everyone says that size is not really that important. But then, there are those special moments, when size is really important, to those who feel that it's important. I did my homework on this and found that the largest erect human penis ever recorded was 13.5" long x 2" diameter (versus my boyfriend's 6.6" long x 1.6" diameter erect penis). But I also read that almost all men blessed with exceptionally large erections are never fully erect, due to the large amount of blood, as well as the blood pressure, required achieve a full erection. And using a dildo of that size would most certainly be uncomfortable, if not impossible, and might even cause damage.

But for those rare times, when the primordial, deep-feminine urge to open wide and receive an exceptionally large phallus hits, I don't hesitate to take care of business: I bring out my simple "Night Stick" for an evening of quality time. Totally inert and basic, it measures 9" long x 1.8" diameter + 5" handle = 14" long, dark and scary -and not for the timid. It's long enough to provide firm pressure against my cervix, as well as a snug and satisfying over-all fit.

I apply a liberal amount of high-grade water-based lubricant (such as K-Y Jelly), carefully insert and withdraw, apply lubricant again, and repeat several times over, until I finally achieve full penetration. And for a heavily textured dildo of this size, I apply a generous one fluid ounce of lubricant per application, a good 4-5 fluid ounces just to get started and well-primed, with a heavy towel underneath. I then ease back for a truly hot and satisfying evening of erotic fantasies, teased along with light finger action and slow, deep thrusts from my 14-inch friend.

P.S.: After a well-deserved, intense orgasm, I invariably fall into a deep sleep. And when I awake, I notice that my uterus has relaxed and molded itself around the heavily textured Night Stick. And to simply pull it out might be painful and cause damage. So I simply give it a half-turn first, and it easily slides out. Just saying.

- Jennifer

About Masturbation Lubricants:

Edging, or skillfully masturbating on the brink of an orgasm, but holding back for an extended period of time, is the ultimate thrill for Masturbation Aficionados.

Those high grade, water-based lubricants, while quite effective, dry out quickly and never seem to last for the full duration of a good masturbation session, and require a re-application, which is quite disruptive when deeply concentrating on edging fantasies.

But when using pure coconut oil, a 2-hour masturbation session, or more is possible, and without soreness.

5.0 milliliters (0.17 US fluid ounce) is a generous amount for one person, for one masturbation session.

Coconut oil feels awesome! And it's really slippery and fairly easy to wash off. High quality coconut oil also has a subtle but wonderful and sexy scent to it that masturbation enthusiasts quickly learn to love.

Be sure to use:

  • Unrefined, unprocessed, virgin, cold-pressed coconut oil.
  • Food grade is another characteristic to look for.

Note: ALL coconut oil is processed. Truly "Unprocessed" would be just a coconut with the husk still on it.

Coconut oil is also better for the skin than all the other oils.

Men: Masturbate with a polyurethane, or nitrile condom, if possible, as latex and lambskin may sometimes degrade during extended edging sessions.

Women: Masturbate with a powder-free polyurethane, or nitrile examination/surgical glove, as latex and lambskin may degrade during extended edging sessions:

  • Take one surgical glove and cut off the four fingers with sharp scissors.
  • Cut off the thumb.
  • Cut along the thumb side of the glove and open up to produce a flat nitrile sheet. The rolled edge that was once the cuff now serves as a convenient upper edge. This will prevent the sheet from slipping down while masturbating.
  • The same can be done with an extra-large condom: Completely unroll a condom (size extra-large, if available). Cut off the head of the condom. Cut along the entire length and open up to produce a flat nitrile sheet. The rolled edge that was originally around the opening now serves as a convenient upper edge. This will prevent the sheet from slipping down while masturbating.

Expeller pressing (also called oil pressing) is a mechanical method for extracting oil from raw coconut. The raw coconut is squeezed under high pressure in a single step, supplied to the press in a continuous feed.

Note: In warm climates, opened coconut oil can get moldy of not refrigerated.

But, because of its high saturated fat content, coconut oil is slow to oxidize and, thus, resistant to rancidification, lasting up to six months at 24 degrees C (75 degrees F) without spoiling.

Other lubricants:

Do Use:

  • Coconut Oil
  • Almond Oil
  • Organic water-based lubricants, especially for your toys (such as KY Jelly, Good Clean Love, Organic Glide, Sylk)

Do Not Use:

  • Hand lotions, as they can numb you, or even burn your special areas.
  • Non-plant based oils like "baby oil" (mineral oil). While nice and slippery, it will plug the pores in your skin. And, you can't use it with anything rubber, latex, nitrile or vinyl because it will dissolve.
  • Conventional, non-organic water-based lubrication.
  • Soaps and Vaseline are both troublesome in different ways.
  • Silicone based lubricant, as it may break down synthetic toys and is hard to wash off.

But some silicone based personal lubricants (such as EROS) do not dry out or get sticky and you only need the smallest amount to get the most amazing glide, if you use a sex toy, and if it's compatible with such lubricants.

Any of the glycerin based liquids work quite well. Even some of the toy bubble solutions contain glycerin, and are excellent.

As with all lubricants you should always wash the area afterwards. Water-based lubricants, being water-soluble so they wash off much easier.

Olive oil, while very lubricating and slippery, is more troublesome to wash off though since its water-resistant.

And some swear that butter and/or margarine are by far the best lubricant they have tried. Just get a good size of it in your hand, at room temperature, and rub it all over your hands, then apply until everything glistens down there: And then stroke, flick, rub and tease yourself into bliss and ecstasy.

Even hair gel works well for some. Slick, just like real thing, no odor and you don't even have to wash it off, non-sticky, and it dries clear. One reader recommends the brand Garnier Fructis Styling Pure Clean Gel.

Solo Spiritual Sex: The Beginners Guide to Tantric Masturbation

If you are reading this, you probably already know that sex is both fun and satisfying. But what if it could be even more than pleasure, and truly amazing? What if we could harness our sexual energy to improve ourselves, our relationships, and, as some have claimed: even the world? Spiritual sexuality is based on the belief that sex has the potential to take us beyond our mundane, everyday, ego-driven existence to connect with and experience something much greater.

Even if you are not ready to sign on for something as lofty as communing with the eternal, spiritual sex is definitely worth trying. Dr. Janet Brito, a licensed psychologist and certified sex therapist with the Center for Sexual and Reproductive Health says tantric masturbation is " about slowing down and getting to know yourself more erotically. It is about having a pleasure-based mindset, full of curiosity and self-discovery." In other words, it is a form of sexual self-care. And while it can be a good way to become more intimate with a partner, a partner can get in the way of practicing, developing and fully experiencing the thrill on Tantric Masturbation.

Why Solo Spiritual Sex and Tantric Masturbation Are So Amazing:

Masturbation gets a bad rap. Some religions consider it morally wrong. There are myths designed to frighten people from doing it. (And, no, you will not go blind or get hairy palms from masturbating.) Masturbation is associated with desperation and being undesirable. But it is actually one of the exhilarating things we can do for ourselves, even if we are in a relationship. Sharing sex is beautiful but so is taking the time to explore yourself without the responsibility of pleasing a partner.

The shame sometimes assigned to self-love is rooted in negative attitudes about sex. If you think of sex with a partner as dirty or bad, you will likely think even worse of solo sex. However, if you think of sex as a healthy part of life, your attitude toward adult alone time will be better. So consider that when we fragment ourselves into pieces: sex, intellect, morality, love of pizza, etc., we cannot be whole. By embracing our sexuality as a valuable part of ourselves, we become more integrated and complete.

Sacred sexual traditions such as Tantra and Kundalini teach that each of us is a manifestation of sexual energy, which is a kind of life force. We exist because of this universal flow and our every breath connects us with it. Our orgasms have the power to take us outside ourselves, moving our consciousness up the astral realm to merge with the infinite. Put more simply: we are each a tiny piece of the universe. Spirituality, and spiritual sex, is a way of connecting our tiny self with all of existence.

Ready to practice pleasure with a purpose?

There is no single way to pursue spiritual masturbation. But the following are some helpful suggestions for beginners inspired by tantric masturbation practices but as with any practice, the ultimate goal is to know yourself. Since each of us is unique, our masturbation practice and style will be too.

Enjoy the journey!

1. Set the Scene

Be your own ideal lover and ask yourself what you need to feel good. Lots of people light candles and put on soft music, but is that what you like? Be personal and specific: Red pillows? Incense? A hot bath? This is a ritual celebration of you, so pamper yourself and engage as many of your senses as possible.

And an essential part of your masturbation ritual is to eliminate distractions: Turn the phone off, let the cat out, draw the blinds.

2. Set an Intention

What do you hope to achieve? It can be as simple as learning something new about yourself or as grandiose as achieving world peace. It just has to be honest. Your intention will help to focus your practice and connect it to the rest of your life. Remember, though, that an intention is not an agenda. You do not have to accomplish anything to give masturbation purpose. You are the purpose.

And notice that you will also experience a profound sense of fellowship, even though you're alone: many in the world are doing the similar rituals, at the same time as you.

3. Take Your Time

If you are usually quick to rub it out and get to sleep, commit to at least 20 minutes of personal erotic time. This is about exploration, not rushing to climax. When your timer dings, you can always continue if you want more!

4. Practice Self Love

Self love is more than self pleasure. The aim is not only to make yourself feel good but to accept, value, and revere yourself. So take a minute to affirm that you and your body are a team. Then compliment your teammate. Acknowledge the miracle of having a heart that beats or legs that walk. Focus on what is wonderful about your body.

5. Caress Yourself

Stick to the PG zones at first: face, arms, feet. Then move to the more receptive areas like the neck or stomach. You are not trying to stimulate yourself yet, just releasing tension and awakening pleasure.

6. Practice Cyclical Belly Breathing: Tantric Breathing

Inhale so that your abdomen expands. Once you are fully inflated, exhale, drawing your belly button toward your spine. Continue this for a few cycles. Imagine your breath as light or energy flowing down the front of your body as you inhale and up your back as you exhale, circling over your head and down the front again with each breath.

7. Touch Yourself

Place a hand on your heart and the other on your genital area. Continue your cyclical breathing and contract your pelvic floor muscles as you exhale. This may arouse you. Which is good. Massage yourself, starting at the outside of your erogenous zones and working your way in until you find the perfect spot. Experiment with levels of arousal. When you get to a 9 out of 10, skillfully bring it back down to a 7 and build again.

8. Go For It!

When you are ready, allow yourself to fully and freely release. Try to picture your sexual flow as a white light bursting up and out of you. Bathe in that light. Let it linger. Savor it. Recover slowly.

Solo spiritual sex can benefit you whether you do it regularly or occasionally. So find a rhythm that works for you and commit to it for a few months. Look out for small changes in your outlook. Are you more positive, energized, creative? Maybe just less on edge? Changes do not have to be huge to be worth pursuing. "This feels incredible!" is all the reason you need.

Safely Reveal and Match Your Deepest, Secret Masturbation Fantasies With These Online Sex Questionnaires:

Share, and discover your partner's secret masturbation fantasies!

Check out these interactive online sex questionnaires for couples to help them discover their hidden fantasies that they are understandably reluctant to discuss, but might both enjoy discovering with each other.

There are two ways to get these questionnaires started:

Two Computers (most common):

One of you goes online, where you may preview the fantasies before taking the quiz. You then input your email address as well as your partner's email address, and then take the test. You will be presented a list of sexual fantasies to respond to, as well as your level of interest (or lack of) in each. The questionnaires generally only take about 10 minutes per person.

Your partner is then emailed an explanation about what the online questionnaire is about, along with a convenient link for them to also take the test. The test results are automatically compared, and then both of you are notified, in separate emails with a list of erotic desires that both of you happen to share. Only compatible desires are disclosed.

One Computer:

You'll have to take the questionnaire one after the other and the results will be presented after the second partner finishes.

Sex Fantasy Quiz Online Sex Questionnaire: http://www.sexfantasyquiz.com/

We Should Try It! https://www.weshouldtryit.com/

MojoUpgrade Online Sex Questionnaire: http://www.mojoupgrade.com/

To view the list of fantasies first: http://old.mojoupgrade.com/question/list/

Sexionnaire: http://sexionnaire.com/ (The most extensive list of sexual fantasies of all the online questionnaires)

That Sex Quiz: https://www.thatsexquiz.com/ Fairly extensive, but not as much as sexionnaire.com

Enjoy!

Just think of the spiritual-erotic adventures that are now in store for you!

... And Ways NOT To Masturbate:

Auto-Erotic Asphyxia: Don't Do It!!

The legendary comedian George Carlin was right: Don't Do It!!

And, this time, he wasn't joking.

He then labored to explain that autoerotic asphyxia is, hands down, the most dangerous form of masturbation. Many who have tried it have never lived to tell the tale. You basically masturbate to an orgasm while cutting off the oxygen supply to your brain, in the mistaken belief that it somehow makes the orgasm extremely intense. Note that, contrary to popular opinion, the windpipe is rarely blocked during the process of autoerotic asphyxia. It's the restriction of the vital flow of blood to the brain that causes the much sought after (but never found) rush of euphoria, as well as accidental death.

Sometimes you miscalculate, and you don't know whether you're cumming or going. And many who practice auto-erotic asphyxia do so because of the exhilarating risk of flirting with death -and not just because they believe that orgasms, without oxygen, feel great. But the odds are stacked against anyone making it out alive.

Even with an attentive lover, auto-erotic asphyxia is not only extremely dangerous, the insidious and subtle damage always accumulates over time. And the one who suffers such damage, due to their diminished capacity, is always the last one to detect any damage being done.

People, who seem fine, after practicing auto-erotic asphyxia with others, have actually died several hours later. And autopsies reveal that, sometimes, fat deposits dislodged in the juggler veins and slowly traveled to the brain, causing a fatal stroke. Or caused a fatal heart attack. And these were young people who died, mind you.

The intense "buzz", and sometimes fainting, that auto-erotic asphyxia creates is actually a symptom of a far deeper and serious condition: Brain damage and / or cardiac arrest. No one ever "simply faints." Something deep and serious always has to happen before one loses consciousness.

Even those employed in the medical field, with a kinky bent, come up with a blank when asked how to "safely" practice auto-erotic asphyxia.

An excellent example of how easy it is to die from asphyxiation: Many, if not most, of the suicides, from hanging, are, very likely, accidental. When one, who is depressed -or simply curious, hangs themselves, they only realize too late that, from the moment they hang, they cannot change their mind. Immediately, their arms can only flail helplessly about, with a total loss of motor control. Dimness of vision sets in. And, within ten seconds of a simple hang, one loses consciousness. Complete and total brain damage occurs within 15-30 minutes. Death occurs within 30-60 minutes. And this can happen with both feet flat on the floor -and it doesn't even require a snug noose to kill you.

Auto-erotic asphyxia is best kept where it belongs: Maybe as a hot and wild masturbation fantasy only. In fact, many dark, erotic fantasies are best explored, refined, and confined as masturbation fantasies.

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Sensual Soundtracks and Music for Masturbation

"The Universe is saying: Allow me to flow through you unrestricted, and you will see the greatest magic you have ever seen."

- Klaus Joehie

Spacious and expansive, nature soundtracks: Unique sounds from the rain forest, ocean surf, and wind chimes, as well as and music that warms the body and stimulates the senses, enhances your libido, increase your desire, gets rid of sexual inhibitions and awakens more of your sexual instinct with seductive sounds.

While not all-inclusive, it's enough to get you started.

Enjoy!

 

Relaxing New Age Music. Over 3 hours of healing and meditation: NewAgeMusic

Tibetan Singing Bowls. Over 11 hours of soothing spiritual tones, a real treat: TibetanSingingBowls

Wind Chimes and Birds. One hour of calming and relaxing garden sounds: WindChimesAndBirds

Ocean Surf. Over 3 hours of calming, sleep-inducing sounds: OceanWaves

Babbling Brook. Over 10 hours of healing and meditation: BabblingBrook

Rain and Thunder. Over 10 hours of healing and meditation: RainAndThunder

Soothing Female Voice and Whispers. Over 38 minutes of New Age meditative relaxation. And what is "ASMR"? Autonomous Sensory Meridian Response: A tingling feeling on your scalp and brain that slowly moves down your neck and spine. So be prepared to experience a complete and wonderful meltdown: SoothingFemaleVoiceAndWhispers

Soothing Male Voice and Whispers. Another soothing and tingling ASMR audio that will gently encourage a complete and wonderful meltdown:

SoothingMaleVoiceAndWhispers

 

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"30 Minutes to Orgasm" Masturbation Countdown Timer

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"30 Minutes to Orgasm" Masturbation Countdown Timer: When you -and/or your partner, positively, absolutely, desire to have an orgasm at a specific moment in time, at exactly the same time.

On file, with this website, is "30 Minutes to Orgasm", a unique 3.5MB 16kbps mono mp3 soundtrack that gently leads you to an orgasm in exactly 30 minutes. Here are some simple instructions, and advice, as to get the maximum benefit from the soundtrack:

Our first love, our last love, and our most intense love, is self-love.

Welcome to "30 Minutes to Orgasm"

For those very special occasions, when you positively, absolutely, desire to achieve an orgasm at a specific moment in time.

When you accurately adjust your clock to the correct time and, at the appropriate moment, select the "play" button on your mp3 player, you have consciously chosen to have an orgasm, in exactly thirty minutes.

The simple, yet revolutionary, mp3 sound track gently reminds you of the time remaining to your orgasm at intervals of: 29 minutes, 20 minutes, 10 minutes, 5 minutes, 2 minutes, 1 minute, 30 seconds, and a final, 10 second countdown.

But before using "30 Minutes to Orgasm," it's important to take this time to receive some valuable advice that will prepare you and dramatically enhance your experience.

"30 Minutes to Orgasm" is just one of the many celebrations of one's lifelong addiction to self-pleasure and its specially induced fantasies. This unique method has been developed, and refined, and has proven to be a simple, pleasant, yet highly effective technique to achieve a simultaneous orgasm with others, whether they are in your presence or not.

Men, and women, are quite different, when it comes to erotic fantasies. But when it comes to masturbation progression and intensity, we are surprisingly alike. And, in the presence of others, "30 Minutes to Orgasm" is a rare, visual treat.

Utilizing the natural, ever intensifying, rhythm of human masturbation, the technique requires the fundamental use of your skilled fingers only. The process is based on emphasis of fantasy-induced orgasms, controlled with light manual stimulation. Married couples, who practice mutual masturbation, report that they experience an intimate bond, a closeness that can only be produced by the candor and intensity of such an act.

It acknowledges the simple truth that many people achieve orgasm, mostly, even exclusively, by way of self-stimulation. And that even among married (or mated) couples, auto-erotica is a frequent and essential feature of good health and happiness.

And, along with the profound sense of fellowship, even if alone, the resulting "30 Minutes to Orgasm" fantasy-induced orgasm is more intense and deeply satisfying, than any known means. So intense, that the body, during orgasm, releases natural endorphins which produce a wonderful, morphine-like sense of euphoria.

Intense.

Satisfying.

And on time.

No numbing vibrators. And no distracting sex toys of any kind are needed.

"30 Minutes to Orgasm" can be the answer, and a crucial element, in many forms of ritual space.

For example: midnight, New Year's Eve. Or, collectively masturbating for world peace. Winter, or summer, solstice. Or, during a minute of national, or international, silence. A time maybe better spent silently writhing in orgasm. Star crossed lovers who agree to a simultaneous orgasm, although hopelessly separated or apart. Couples who are apart on business or overseas duties. And couples who are together, but unable to achieve simultaneous orgasm by other means.

And those who simply find "30 Minutes to Orgasm," in itself, pleasurable, and addicting. Many have come to embrace the comforting and familiar countdown and pre-determined moment for orgasm, as a haven, an emotional retreat, a special sense of peace and order while the rest of the world goes crazy. Couples who practice and mutually masturbate to "30 Minutes To Orgasm" describe it as a visual treat, always a stellar performance.

And, with earbuds, "30 Minutes to Orgasm" can be practiced virtually anywhere. In a dorm room. In the wilderness. In a train. While in meditation. Even laying in bed, next to your partner, without anyone, but you, knowing about it.

So, enjoy "30 Minutes to Orgasm," with confidence. Know full well that you and many others, including us, are frequent flyers and will always be with you in spirit.

The text below will lead you through the eight distinct and essential phases of the process of "30 Minutes to Orgasm" and self pleasure. This session will prepare you to be in full control of the experience, especially in the final minutes leading up to your orgasm. We will be working together with "30 Minutes to Orgasm" to stay on track, and on time, for the duration of the session.

Remember: Don't concentrate on the time. Do concentrate on your fantasy.

The First Phase - Resolve:

Of which you have already given some thought. The intention, and determination to achieve orgasm at a specific date, at a specific moment, in time. For some, this phase will include hours, or days, leading up to the event and may involve special rituals and observances beforehand. This phase may also include completely abstaining from orgasm, and, for some, all forms of sex for one, two, three days, or even a week or more, to ensure that the body is truly ready for an intense orgasm.

This is the time to plan and cultivate a special, private fantasy, just for the event. It can be centered on a movie star, a friend, a co-worker, a neighbor, or, a harem. Or, a completely, spiritual, metaphysical, focus. This may also be the time to communicate to others the date and time of your special orgasm.

For important events, you should have practiced "30 Minutes To Orgasm" at least several times, to feel totally comfortable and familiar with the experience. This is especially important if you and your lover intend to masturbate together. The planning in this phase will place you in control of that crucial balance and harmony as you near orgasm, while carefully holding back.

The Second Phase - Private Sanctuary:

An essential feature of "30 Minutes To Orgasm" is simply taking the time to retreat into quiet seclusion and consciously entering a calming, rest state.

Take the phone off the hook. Let the cat out. Close the window blinds. And completely tune out the rest of the world. Consume any alcoholic beverages, or other mood altering substances, beforehand. Dress, or undress, comfortably. It may include spending time in a hot tub. Or the ritual lighting of incense and candles. Or the reading of erotic literature.

A totally silent environment is recommended. But feel free to put on nature soundtracks, or other background music, if this is a normal part of your private routine.

The Third Phase - Self Indulgence:

Dim, or turn off the lights. Ease back, and position yourself to be comfortable and fully accessible, below the waist, for the duration of the session. And relax. Pent up, private, deeply held erotic thoughts are allowed to come forth and completely take over your consciousness.

When a couple mutually participates in "30 Minutes To Orgasm," both are acknowledging that they deeply desire an erotic experience that is outside of their relationship. By sitting, facing each other and spreading their thighs, they are not only presenting an erotic part of themselves for the other to enjoy, but are also granting full acceptance and approval for their partner to act on their very private, and passionate, desires.

The Fourth Phase - Excitation and Arousal:

Start the soundtrack and completely surrender yourself to "30 Minutes To Orgasm." Manual stimulation begins. Lasting only minutes, this phase sets the stage that propels your erotic thoughts into the forefront, sending you, and your lover, down the path, into the blinding light, of fantasyland.

The Fifth Phase - The Plateau:

This is the time to close your eyes and completely tune out everything, and everyone, in the room, and concentrate on your fantasy. Commonly known in masturbation circles as "edging" or "orgasm denial", the feelings experienced in the excitation and arousal stage are accentuated. Prolonged "edging", in the hands of a skilled masturbator (for want of a better word), releases natural endorphins (the same released by an orgasm) that produce a cosmic, trance-like state and feelings of euphoria.

For masturbation aficionados, this is the payoff, a truly mind-altering realm. Manual stimulation becomes much lighter, with short, delicate, practiced strokes. The body's circuits are deliciously overloaded, awaiting for your signal, as orgasm appears imminent. The "30 Minutes To Orgasm" soundtrack is mostly composed of silence, to facilitate the near-orgasm experience.

In this phase, since the lines are blurred between consciousness, and the dream world, and unconsciousness, you should be well rested and relaxed, beforehand. It is almost impossible to practice 30 Minutes To Orgasm if tired, weary, or fatigued, without falling asleep in the process, or experiencing pre-mature orgasm.

The Sixth Phase - Going For It:

That familiar, helpless moment, either by accident or on purpose, when you realize that there is absolutely no way that you're NOT going to have an orgasm. Extreme self-control yields to reckless abandon, manual stroking abruptly takes on a frenzied pace, one's face grimaces, sometimes the knees are drawn up to the chest, as one completely, and totally, loses it and gives in to passion.

The Seventh Phase - Orgasm:

The one of ecstasy and release. The climax stage of the session and, while intense, is clearly the short stage, lasting only seconds. Yet this is the critical moment, the special event of your efforts and careful planning.

In this stage, you will experience a series of involuntary muscular contractions, as the speed of your breathing, and pulse, arrive at their maximum. The experience is vocalized, in some, while others, due to understandable childhood inhibitions, writhe in silence.

Practiced, in some circles, as a Focused Orgasm. When one consciously suppresses the body's natural lovesong and silently and rigidly visualizes, for example, world peace and harmony, during orgasm. It is believed, by some, that a simultaneous, collective, Focused Orgasm, has a powerful and desirable effect on the world.

In this phase, if you discover that you have to stroke uncomfortably fast in the final count down, in order to achieve orgasm, or if you orgasm late, you should add an extra day or so of abstinence, so that your body is more in need of an orgasm.

Likewise, if you discover that you experience pre-mature orgasm, you should shorten the period of abstinence, or not abstain at all, to give you full control over your orgasm.

Always remember, "30 Minutes To Orgasm" is a dream world. A spiritual and emotional process. And not a quick, mindless, physical one.

The Eighth (and final) Phase - Bliss and Euphoria:

The time of extreme calm and well being. An indescribable feeling that is beyond peace. At 30 minutes, 38 seconds, "30 Minutes To Orgasm" warmly congratulates you, then comes to an end. This phase is characterized by the return to a rest state, temporary disorientation, drowsiness, or even a deep sleep. This phase can last anywhere from 15 minutes, to an hour, or more.

One of the drawbacks of "30 Minutes To Orgasm", being so intense, so extreme that one often experiences a kind of psychological crash, or letdown, afterwards. This can be greatly reduced by simply savoring the moment with your partner for a job well done. Take in the sight of your lover laying there, absolutely wasted, the air smells of masturbation. This is definitely NOT the time to just roll over and go to sleep. Again, using extreme self-control, make an effort to wind down slowly. Hug and kiss each other. Clean each other up with delicious oral sex. And talk. This is a special time of warmth and closeness.

If you and your masturbation soulmate are in a long distance relationship, now is the special time to call or warmly video-chat with each other, and congratulate yourselves for your auto-erotic skills and intimacy.

And that's why many believe that mutual masturbation is the champagne of lovemaking.

While we hope that you find the above guidelines to be helpful, one is expected to be their own erotic master. There are actually no absolute guidelines as to how one goes about the process, as it will vary greatly among couples. It's simply one of the many options for couples to acknowledge the uncharacteristically wild-spirited, adulterous side of their relationship, where they consciously, and with forethought, agree to explore unknown territory together.

To illustrate just one of the many possibilities of "30 Minutes to Orgasm":

It's not uncommon for couples to, together, imagine, build and compose their own special 30-minute masturbation fantasy, with events and actions in their wild fantasy timeline corresponding to the specific 28 minute, 20 minute, 10 minute, 5 minute, 2 minute, 1 minute, 30 second, and the final, 10 second countdown time intervals in the "30 Minutes to Orgasm" soundtrack, keeping both of them on the same page and on track throughout their fantasy adventure, all the way to their simultaneous orgasms.

This concludes the basic primer on "30 Minutes To Orgasm." The rest is, of course, up to you. Have fun with it and don't hesitate to share it with others.

"30 Minutes to Orgasm"

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Haiku is a 17-syllable verse form consisting of three lines. Below is an explanation -as well as our excellent examples. Hint: We composed many of our verses while masturbating!

Haiku is one of the most important forms of traditional Japanese poetry.

Haiku is, today, a 17-syllable verse form consisting of three metrical units of 5, 7, and 5 syllables.

The technique of "cutting":

The cutting divides the Haiku into two parts, with a certain imaginative distance between the two sections, but the two sections must remain, to a degree, independent of each other. Both sections must enrich the understanding of the other.

To make this cutting, in English, either the first or the second line ends normally with a colon, long dash or ellipsis.

Friends simply make love. Kindred spirits masturbate. Choose your mate wisely!

You must understand: No real lover can compete... With stroked fantasies!

Lips glisten; cock stroked. We orgasm together! Minds light-years apart.

She whimpers some name. He explodes into mid-air. Mutual self-play.

You cannot compete with my world of fantasy. Join me, in self-love!

He strokes to Venus. She writhes in the arms of Pan. Shared ethereal flights.

I truly love you. But I'm edging deeply now. And don't distract me.

They kiss and embrace. They retire to the bedroom. Both will masturbate!

Behold! A couple who prefers to masturbate. Life of fantasy!

You want to make love? Self-foreplay has control now, edging fantasies!

We both made a pledge, that self-love is our true love. And we will not stray.

Don't understate the power of masturbation: No one can resist!

Beauty, lust, and kink. It's all just another day in the realm of dreams.

Masturbate tonight! The Sun, Earth, and Mars align. We'll writhe with the spheres!

We were to make love. But our skilled fingers won out. Extreme orgasms!

I edged with control. Visions stroked. Release denied? No, No! NOT NOW! <moan>

Don't make light of our masturbation addictions. Self-induced trances!

I will not hold dear one who shuns masturbation. Too prudish for me!

A special evening: We masturbated, apart, and we writhed all night.

How dare you imply that you're better than self-play! Try it, you'll love it!

We came hard last night! Apart, we teased each other. Mind over matter!

You have two choices: Either masturbate with me, Or find someone else!

Thighs spread wide apart, faces grimace, bodies writhe. Soulmates masturbate!

As skilled fingers work, masturbation smells the room. Glazed and dazed, we dream.

We'd abstained for days, The orgasms were painful. The bliss, beyond peace!

We've cultivated masturbation addictions. A lifetime, of bliss!

I self-loved for him: Bikini waxed, nails painted. Stellar performance!

Empty wine glasses, the moans of masturbation. Hedonistic scene!

We were great lovers, but masturbation triumphed. The ultimate thrill!

Stroke, stroke, stroke, stroke, stroke. Together, we masturbate, Our dreams, far apart.

I took a lover into the world of self-love. We never returned!

Wine: long hangovers. Drugs: harsh, mind-numbing effects. Self-love: inner peace.

The work of friendship. The obligations of love. The bliss of self-love!

Romance always pales. Steamy lovers come and go. Masturbation lasts!

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  • Humans are endowed with the largest genitalia, for their over-all body size, of any mammal on the planet -far larger than is necessary for procreation. And with this feature comes the most powerful urge to masturbate, of any mammal (also primates) on the planet. Combine this with skilled fingers, and a highly developed brain, humans are able, and eager, to sexually fantasize -in vivid Technicolor. This primordial compulsion to masturbate suggests that manually stimulated sexual visualization has always been crucial to the human experience. Avid masturbators enjoyed a distinct evolutionary advantage over those who masturbated less.
  • Masturbation is the secret to monogamy. It allows you to have affairs in your head, where they don't do any harm to your relationship.
  • Many members of our forum have fully experienced covert childhood masturbation, and later moving on to partner sex. We are eager to move on and explore new sexual adventures. And masturbation, in adulthood, is quite different and exciting when one treats it as the new frontier, the ultimate thrill and pinnacle of pleasure. And masturbating with a partner who shares in a powerful masturbation addiction is unbelievably fun, a deliciously decadent, kinky, brash and shameless way to spend our adult years.

  • Even attractive couples find that partner sex just doesn't satisfy their libido. Making love together, even twice in one night, may fail to completely fulfill ones sexual desires. On the other hand, when a couple consciously chooses to masturbate together, the excitement and anticipation builds as both prepare for the night. And as they masturbate together, the thrill lasts and lasts, until both writhe and moan in intense orgasms. Totally wasted, both fall into a deep sleep, not to awaken until late morning, and float back down to earth, with a warm morning glow, completely satisfied and fulfilled.
  • Masturbation harkens back to our early childhood memories of our first orgasms, carefully performed in secrecy and stealth. And we celebrate coming full circle, re-discovering that masturbating provides a comforting, warm, erotic, and very familiar connection with our past.
  • What a body! Who wouldn't be eager to fondle and play with it? You ARE in love with yourself!
  • Masturbation is the gold standard to which all forms of sex are compared. As one reaches sexual maturity and refines their sexual tastes throughout life, every new sexual experience is subconsciously measured and weighed in against one's masturbation fantasies. Even the mating selection process is at odds with masturbation, as most people will opt for masturbation instead of sexual encounters with most of the potential sexual partners they meet. A masturbator has the advantage of being able -and more than willing, to hold off and wait for the best partner match possible.

 

Masturbation is simply fun. It feels terrific. And who can resist the temptation that only masturbation-induced orgasms can fulfill. In masturbation, various kinds of self-stimulation and discovery are working together to maximize the goal of satisfying for yourself. Pent up, private, deeply held erotic thoughts are allowed to come forth and completely take over your consciousness.

  • A masturbation addiction can truly set you free. Those who cultivate and enjoy auto-erotica, as their primary means of sex, are able to function in life in a relative state of autonomy. That is, they are not in need, therefore are better able to be more selective, and successful, in choosing a partner -or not choosing one altogether. Being a masturbator, they aspire to visual imagery and experiences that are above the mundane. Such traits are consistent with a high self-esteem level.
  • Masturbation is readily available. Convenient, and completely satisfying. It does not require the time-consuming efforts and unwanted distractions that friendship, courting, and sex with a partner requires. And never forget that masturbation is strictly for intense pleasure -and not for procreation. Those who masturbate with others, whether in the same room, or in spirit with an internet group, enjoy a profound sense of fellowship that outsiders cannot comprehend.
  • Good masturbators make better companions. The most satisfying affairs are those consummated after both partners have lusted for each other and secretly masturbated, in their anticipation of physical contact. And, if they're honest and truthful with each other, will candidly admit that their masturbation fantasies were far better than their real experiences together. Yet, there is no denial that masturbation puts one more in tune with your sexual response, enhancing your interpersonal sex relations.
  • Face it. Both you and your partner probably fantasize about someone else while making love with each other. While there is nothing really wrong with that, you are being cheated out of going deeper into your fantasies, to some degree. Wouldn't it be much better if both of you masturbated together instead? That way you'll both get the decadent thrill of watching each other pleasure yourselves. But more importantly, both of you will be completely free, with both hands, to carefully stroke and focus on your private fantasies, without any of the unwanted distractions of having to satisfy your lover -only yourself.

  • Masturbation, being easily available, is ideal for experimental purposes and can be used as a form of self-exploration, to discover exactly what one likes or does not like sexually. Erotic ideas can be best explored in the virtual world of masturbation, where one's own likes and dislikes are subjected to elevated risk-taking and adventurous paths, in a fantasyland setting. Human masturbation is truly one of the miracles of the universe.
  • Regular masturbation promotes restful sleep and is essential to good health and well being. It's a fact that those who suffer from a psychological based sexual dysfunction usually suffer from inhibitions towards masturbation. Likewise, one may naturally build up considerable sexual tension when they do not have orgasms on a frequent and regular basis (You won't be as irritable the next day).
  • Although masturbation, when resorted to by oneself, is obviously a solitary pursuit, some people actually achieve better relationships with their partners or mates than they would probably achieve if they only engaged in sexual contacts with these partners.

  • In many ways, elevated and refined levels of masturbation are proving far superior to transcendental meditation. For obvious reasons, this truism is not openly discussed and advocated in the inhibited mainstream of public consciousness, but the personal benefits are there, just the same. Masturbation assisted transcendental meditation is the new metaphysical frontier of the 21st century. In masturbation assisted transcendental meditation, abstract and spiritual thoughts are better focused on and elevated to higher levels, when skillfully and carefully stroked along.
  • Show and Tell. Mutual masturbation (masturbating with your partner) is a completely natural act. This is an ideal technique for couples who have developed deep feelings for each other and desire to move on to a special, richer level of intimacy and closeness. This does require a level of confidence and trust between both parties though, as you need to let your guard down, to some extent, to really appreciate the entire experience.
  • Masturbation eases tension, distracting us from anxiety, self-depreciation, depression, and other negative feelings. The unusually intense orgasm produced by masturbation stimulates the pituitary gland, triggering morphine-like endorphins, causing a transcendent-like experience. Masturbation will not solve these basic emotional problems, but as a distraction technique, it is one of the best.
  • Star-crossed lovers can consummate their affections for each other, by agreeing to simultaneously masturbate together in spirit, although hopelessly separated or apart.
  • If one has, or may have a sexually transmitted disease. Mutual masturbation is of the safest form of foreplay known to mammals, as it involves only touching yourself and not your partner. The no-contact nature of mutual masturbation allows both partners to experience total intimacy and affection, without concerns of one infecting the other.
  • If one is married. Mutual masturbation, while deliciously taboo in our conservative society, has less religious, social, and legal barriers that have to be considered, dealt with, or worked around.
  • If one is physically impaired. Physical handicaps are completely immaterial with masturbation. Mutual masturbation is, truly, all in the mind. Everyone knows exactly what satisfies them and, since traditional sex and physical contact have no place in mutual masturbation, the intimate and spiritual benefits will naturally manifest themselves.

  • You and your lover simply desire to experience a higher, spiritual form of intimacy. Most people start early in life privately experimenting with self pleasure (remember how unbelievably good it felt?), then there was physical sex for the first time (remember how awkward, even scary it was?), next came an awkward, covert adolescent sex, moving on to steady relationships (remember how exciting it was?), then to marriage. Married (or mated) couples who regularly masturbate together experience a special intimacy, a unique and lasting bond. Mutual masturbation is an intimate ritual, a rite of passage to a higher plane of transcendent-erotic lovemaking.
  • Masturbation can be practiced almost anywhere, at almost anytime. Whenever the urge hits. In a dorm room. In the wilderness. In a train. While in meditation. Even laying in bed, next to your partner, without anyone, but you, knowing about it.
  • Masturbation comes to the rescue, when one has a crush on someone who is clearly unobtainable, or unavailable, or inappropriate. Privately acting on these hot flashes, by masturbating all the way to an orgasm, is a socially acceptable means to soften and take the pain out of some of these intense feelings, and, over time, dissipate them.
  • In masturbation, one performs their sex activities on pure impulse, as well as their resting periods between activities, since they do not have to depend on the participation of their partners. As such, achieving orgasm is not important, since falling asleep, and waking to begin masturbating again is a common cycle of extended masturbation sessions.
  • Billions of people throughout the world have always found and still find a great many advantages when they resort to masturbation that they would not find if they only participated in interpersonal contacts. Knowing this tends to create a profound sense of fellowship, even if masturbating alone. This realization of a sort of "collective karma" can also heighten the intensity of self-induced orgasms.

  • When a couple mutually masturbates, both are acknowledging that they deeply desire an erotic experience that is outside of their relationship. By sitting, facing each other and spreading their thighs, they are not only presenting an erotic part of themselves for the other to enjoy, but are also bareing their wild, adulterous side, yet granting full acceptance and approval for their partner to fantasy-act on their very private, and passionate, desires. Masturbation allows both partners a large measure of freedom and self-satisfaction, adding a magical feeling to the relationship.
  • Quite often, in our daily routines, we see or meet someone, or experience an event, or simply visualize an erotic scenario that truly turns us on. When these magical hot flashes occur, it is normal and healthy, and crucial, to retreat into a quiet seclusion and masturbate, all the way to an orgasm, on the same day of such an experience, while our feelings and visual images are still fresh and clear. Doing so, will crystallize our immediate thoughts and feelings, refine and distill them down to their essence: their most pure and erotic form. Once acted on in such a manner, these now-vivid fantasies can be recalled and fantasized on in future, hot masturbation sessions, again, again, and again.

  • Masturbation can be practiced in symbolic, religious, value laden, and other ways and, if desired, derive unification experiences and other profound non-sexual experiences from engaging in it. The stroke of midnight, New Year's Eve, or winter, or summer, solstice, or, during a minute of national, or international, silence -a time, maybe better spent silently writhing in orgasm. Practiced, in some, circles, as a Focused Orgasm, when one consciously suppresses the body's natural love song and silently and rigidly visualizes, for example, world peace and harmony, while stroking themselves through their orgasm in the usual manner. It is believed, by some, that a simultaneous, collective, Focused Orgasm, has a powerful and desirable effect on the world.
  • It acknowledges, the simple truth, that many people achieve orgasm, exclusively, by way of self-stimulation. People can often achieve better sex through resorting to auto-erotic practices than they would achieve if they only resorted to interpersonal sexual contacts. And that, even among married couples, auto-erotica is a frequent, and essential, feature of good health and happiness.
  • A masturbation adventure into the blinding light of fantasyland, regularly, will also relax and rejuvenate you. Although a session may last only minutes, vast reaches of time and space are covered in the of realm of the masturbation-stimulated imagination.

  • Human sexual fantasies and desires are truly insatiable. The practice of ancient kings having harems, into the hundreds of beautiful women, is testimony to the futility of seeking erotic satisfaction in the real world. Romance novels, read by most women today, are the counterpart of this undeniable phenomenon. Only masturbation fantasies are truly capable of fulfilling and satisfying. Married couples, who desire to stay married, must first, and foremost, openly profess to their masturbation addictions and build their relationship around that.
  • Partner sex: The great exaggeration. Our popular culture screams at us day in and day out, professing the need of everyone to pair into couples and partnerships... and breeders. The result is that teenagers become pregnant, sexually transmitted diseases are rampant, and, the worst part, romance has become an industry. Equally troubling, gays and lesbians lobby the public, telling us that we are all homosexual -or at least bisexual. The fact is that we are all, first and foremost, masturbators, latent sexuals, at heart. Everyone needs intimate companionship, but society would be much better off if every romance movie and story had truly wild and erotic ending -where both lovers ecstatically retreat from the scene, to masturbate together. Even promiscuous sex would become one night stands -of steamy and hot mutual masturbation. The world would soon experience relief from the ever-expanding swarm of human locusts, as our populations decline in our newfound bliss and happiness. New epic love stories would evolve: "There once was a beautiful, exotic princess who lived in a distant land. And she lived happily ever after. How? That's completely up to her."

  • One fantasizes best during masturbation. And can focus better on their own sexual fantasies and pleasures than when they are distracted or interfered with by the presence of a partner. As in the case of fantasy, one's learning to focus is transferable to actual sex acts with their partner.
  • In masturbation, one is able to engage in much longer periods of arousal and, especially, focus on the intense, near-orgasm experience (edging), than they would ever experience in distracting, partner sex. For masturbation aficionados, this is the payoff, a truly mind-altering state. The experience is more intense, with more deeply satisfying forms of arousal and orgasm than is likely with their regular or special partner. The end result is a state of unconsciousness that is beyond peace.
  • Masturbation can be the answer, and a crucial element, in many forms of ritual space. Only masturbation can be highly ritualized, from start to orgasm, throughout the entire process.
  • Masturbation enables couples to enjoy complete and satisfying lovemaking, whether they are together or far apart.

  • You and your partner can masturbate together. That way both of you get exactly what you want, plus you get to experiment with a little exhibitionism and voyeurism. Always a stellar performance!
  • Remember: No fantasy, and no sexual desire, is too strange, too unusual, too weird, too improbable, or too kinky, when it comes to masturbation. Psychologists have labored for years to explain to us that strange and weird erotic fantasies are, in fact, completely normal and healthy, as long as they're acted out in the imagination -and not in the real world. Also, this frees you to do (fantasize) about anything you want, without having to explain it to a bewildered partner. One is encouraged to let themselves go, and completely cater to these desires in the world of self-pleasure. And never forget: The stranger the fantasy, the stronger the orgasm. Just be sure to buckle your seatbelt!

  • We are human miracles. Each one of us perfectly unique. We can pick our clothes and hairstyle... and choose the way we look. But we have absolutely no control over what turns us on. That's why masturbation is so incredibly good. It connects us with our pure, hedonistic impulses. We WILL be consumed by it. Recognizing that fact, let's make it an honest, shameless and healthy celebration of lust and fantasy.

So enjoy masturbation with confidence. Know full well that you and many others, including ourselves, are frequent flyers, and will always be with you in spirit.

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Surprise: Couples In Long Distance Relationships Often Develop Stronger, More Intimate Bonds!

Research shows that couples living apart can, in many ways be more intimate and connected... proving that absence really can make the heart grow fonder.

The Perks of a Long Distance Relationship:

Say the words "Long Distance Relationship" to any couple and thoughts of time zone troubles and four-hour phone calls send chills down their spines. When you're in an intimate friendship, it's hard to imagine not seeing your sweetie regularly.

But most of us will find ourselves in a Long Distance Relationship at some point. This year, seven million couples in the U.S. reported their relationship as being long distance and 75 percent of all currently engaged couples said that their relationship had included distance at some point.

This isn't the craziest thing to imagine... between texts, voice chats, and video chats, sometimes it feels like we are more in touch with our cross-country companion than our Sunday brunch pals. A recent study from the Pew Research Center reported that almost a quarter of all relationships have an online element that keeps things going. But according to a new batch of research, a Long Distance Relationship can greatly enhance relationships, not hurt them.

Actually... You're More Intimate:

You would think the distance would drive you farther apart. Literally. But actually, studies show that the opposite is true: Couples in long distance relationships often develop stronger, more intimate bonds than their close couple counterparts. A recent study from Cornell University found that couples in long distance relationships not only romanticized and idealized their partner more, as well as their partner's behavior, but they also became more vulnerable and disclosed more to their partner.

According to the experts, a lot of this comes from good old-fashioned emails. "With email, people tend to get a little more vulnerable," says a couples therapist in New York. "You can get to know somebody a little bit deeper than you can when you're dating in the same city because if you're making the time to connect via email, you tend to think more about, and have in-depth communication."

You Become a Master of Communication:

Also that occasional voice chat or video chat date schedule is so on point, it's no wonder couples in a Long Distance Relationship are better at communicating than the rest of us. All that intimacy-building email time often is actually making you better at communicating in general. Being apart forces your communication skills to be razor sharp, or else you drift apart. The Cornell study found that long distance partners go to greater lengths to overcome communication barriers. You're learning each other's communication styles and you're doing it in a way that's a little more non-threatening. Both people need to know what it is that they need to feel connected. And long distance couples make the effort to give that to each other.

You Commit 100 Percent:

If you're in a Long Distance Relationship, the commitment is pretty clear. You can't exactly be ambiguous friends with benefits from opposite coasts. Therapists call this intentionally deciding, versus sliding... your choice to be in the relationship is active... not something you just fall into over time. More effort has to go into it if both parties have to continually recommit on a regular basis. This causes people to go more deliberate into a relationship because you literally can't go too quickly, and get too earthy. Sometimes when things go too quick too fast, potential relationships tend to fall apart.

You Have More "You" Time:

Spending too much time together can often stifle your personal growth, both as a couple and as individuals... and it's all too easy to fall into the common rut of seeing someone who's just down the street all the time. "I'm a big believer in people in relationships cultivating a life outside of the relationship," says a couples therapist in Manhattan.

For all of the downsides to a Long Distance Relationship (like never having your smart Significant Other by your side for Tuesday night trivia), that's one major perk: lots of free time to invest in yourself and your own individual development. Part of your job is to create an individual life where, when you do reconnect with one another, you can bring back the different kinds of stimulation, friendships, and experiences that you had separately.

A Long Distance Relationship can actually set you free:

Those in a Long Distance Relationship are able to function in life in a relative state of autonomy. That is, being in a relationship -even a Long Distance Relationship they are truly not in need, therefore are better able to be more selective, and successful, in choosing friends, in choosing a real life partner -or not choosing a real life partner altogether. Those in a Long Distance Relationship do not require the time-consuming efforts and unwanted distractions that physical friendship, courting, and sex with a real life partner requires. Instead they aspire to erotic fantasy, visual imagery and experiences that are above the mundane, mixed with occasional but essential warm communication and friendship with their distant partner. Such traits are consistent with a high self-esteem level.

And With More "You" Time, Your Sex Life Can Actually Be Hotter!

We like the sounds of this one: According to the experts, distance isn't at all doom and gloom for your love life. On the contrary, distance introduces a whole new element to the idea of an intimate friendship. Whether people want to believe it or not, living apart comes with temptation, so this is a chance to get a little creative.

Here is a fascinating story from one of our readers in a long distance relationship, detailing their unique and creative masturbation experience:

Delicious Human Sperm!

As an avid reader of your website, I just wanted to share my story with you.

I have a long distance boyfriend, and while he is married, I am a widow, so our love for each other is platonic, but with a hot and kinky twist: Although we live apart, we both privately enjoy a shared masturbation addiction.

Certainly, I could have connected with a single man, but I have noticed that the best men are all taken. Besides, I had read that as many as 1 in 3 sexual partners that one meets on the internet has at least one sexually transmitted disease. So a married man seemed much safer, and certainly more discreet.

While this unusual arrangement satisfies, for the most part a deep need for both of us, this is where the hot and kinky twist comes in: When my boyfriend and I meet for coffee, once a month, he generously provides me with, at most, three 5ml vials of his sperm (actually semen, frozen to 0 degrees Fahrenheit).

Conveniently stored in my freezer, whenever the urge to masturbate to pent-up fantasies hits I simply warm up a vial of his sperm by immersing it in a cup of almost hot water until it reaches body temperature, and then squirt the 5ml vial of his cum into my mouth, just before masturbating.

His sperm has a wonderful smooth texture that is quite satisfying in my mouth. Like fine wine, the taste of his semen is complex and dynamic. Slightly salty and with a delicate chlorine bleach scent and taste, the quality of his semen is highly prized by me, as I truly crave its unique properties that are essential to my health and emotional well-being.

As my boyfriend is quite adventurous and creative, I warmly complained and pressed him into adding some slick Madison Avenue marketing fantasy, magic and excitement to the experience since we would never have sex together. In response, he produced this slick marketing flyer that I am sharing with you.

And it works! After reading his hyped-up marketing flyer for the first time, I eased back and masturbated myself up to a critical edging mode, and then squirted a 5ml vial of his warmed up sperm into my mouth before delicately masturbating again. But the primordial rush was so overwhelming that I completely lost all control and I, sadly, had a premature orgasm!

But I have now completely mastered the combination of deep, extended masturbation sessions with the taste of his delicious sperm in my mouth and breath, as it always does the trick to keep me happy and satisfied.

That is my kink, okay?

I hope you enjoyed my unusual story, and feel free to post this on your website if you feel that there is a general interest.

- Mary

The obvious reality of Long Distance Relationship self-sex compels couples to be more candid, to get to know each other sexually in an entirely new way. Both have discovered that solo-sex is, simply, fun. It feels terrific. And who can really resist the temptation: They're not just making love, they're flying through the blinding light of fantasy land, able to engage in much longer periods of arousal and, especially, focus on the intense, near-orgasm experience (edging), than they would ever experience in distracting partner sex.

And don't underestimate the power and elevated levels of intimacy when a couple, apart, openly admits to each other, nay, boasts to each other about their solo-sex adventures, to the approval, admiration, and encouragement from each other. And not surprisingly, those who have grown to feel, or just temporarily feel that self-sex is actually better than partner-sex invariably choose a Long Distance Relationship, to experience the elevated intimacy of being connected with a partner who feels the same, as they both will enjoy a unique, profound sense of fellowship, even when masturbating alone, that outsiders can never comprehend.

As every avid masturbator knows: Sex with another person is ok, but never like the real thing!

Several studies also show that regular orgasms (yes, even alone) promotes restful sleep and is essential to good health and well being: it reduces the risk of coronary heart disease and type 2 diabetes, and eases tension, distracting ourselves from anxiety, self-depreciation, depression, and other negative feelings. The unusually intense orgasm from a prolonged solo-sex session stimulates the pituitary gland, triggering the release of morphine-like endorphins, dopamine, and oxytocin, causing a deep, transcendent-like experience, a feeling that is beyond peace.

You Grow Healthier:

Those overly dramatic declarations that our real life relationships may be killing us might actually have some merit. Researchers at the Family Institute at Northwestern University found that couples who lived in separate homes were less depressed, less anxious, ate healthier, and were more active than cohabiting couples.

These survey findings were supported by a recent study published in the Journal of Communication, which found that long distance relationships actually include less anxiety (say goodbye to fighting over who left the seat up or getting upset about someone showing up 20 minutes late). And the upside of not going out to dinner every other night? You eat smaller portions when you're not with your partner, according to a SafeFood report on portion size. Score one for the Long Distance Relationship (and your waistline).

Yes, the advantages of Long Distance Relationships goes on and on.

Check out this short (3:36) video that explains what a true, long distance auto-erotic love is about:

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When many people hear that a couple lives 11 time zones apart and can afford to come together only once in a very long while, it seems natural to offer sympathy for their pain. Having a lover far away is normally seen as a curse.

But as every masturbator knows, it is time to acknowledge the many benefits of such an arrangement as well. Long distance love should, more fairly, be envied. Whatever our longings may indicate, there is simply an irresistible urge to become infatuated with, project superhuman attributes, and deeply love someone who is not there. Far from an unfortunate necessity, living apart should be recognized for what it truly is: an advantage.

The capacity to be alone is the capacity to love.

It may look paradoxical to you, but it is not. It is an existential truth: only those people who are capable of being alone are capable of love, of sharing, of going into the deepest core of the other person, without possessing the other, without becoming dependent on the other, without reducing the other to a thing, and without becoming addicted to the other. They allow the other absolute freedom, because they know that if the other leaves, they will be as happy as they are now. Their happiness cannot be taken by the other, because it is not given by the other.

- Osho

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The Hip Forums

As we have no interest here in setting up, maintaining and policing an open masturbation forum, we're referring our readers to The Hip Forums.

Being well monitored, and well mannered, Hip Forums is probably the most clean and civil of all the online masturbation forums. But use discretion in posts, as all ages, including teenagers visit and comment in the forum.

https://www.hipforums.com/forum/forum/250-masturbation/

Note: There are, for sure, other masturbation forums and porn sites out there, but most tend to be skanky, and we have no interest in browsing the internet in search of them. But don't hesitate to let us know if you do find any exceptional sites that are a class act and acceptable.

PleazeMe

Sign up to join PleazeMe's beta launch and shape a new delightfully erotic online community, a sexual social media utopia! Anonymously connect, learn, and play.

PleazeMe has all the social media features you would expect. Each user gets a profile page, is able to make connections, can post stuff to their feed, message and more.

Here are the main PleazeMe social media features:

Profile Page: Just like with any other social network, each PleazeMe user has their very own profile page. This is complete with a profile photo and cover photo and activity feed.

Notifications: Receive notifications when people like and comment on your content, or follow you.

Messaging System: PleazeMe has a private messaging system. All the messages are organized in their own area on the site.

Friends / Followers: Just like with any other social network, PleazeMe members are able to make connections. Follow the people you want to follow and their content will appear in your news feed.

The best way to start is to check out the PleazeMe blog where you can find out more about the site and if you are so inclined, sign up, open up and discover something about yourself that might make your life just a bit more exciting and free.

https://blog.pleazeme.com/

https://www.facebook.com/pleazemesocial/

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Connections/Dating Services:

Badoo

An excellent interactive dating site that has replaced the now defunct CraigsList Personals. We strongly advise against paying for any of their "special features" as they're simply not worth it. Completely compatible with desktop computers as well as smartphone apps, the website even provides for free video-chats, but via smartphones only.

A typical dating site, men outnumber women 10:1, but the proportion of women on these sites is steadily increasing. But the site is plagued with "Badoo Vultures" mature and senior women who have been on there for years, looking for "Mr. Right" but take time off to seek out and harass men and their intentions. And on the opposite end of the spectrum are men who turn out to be incarcerated felons who are always asking for money. Just saying.

If it's a Masturbation Soulmate you're seeking, be sure to compose and post an illustration-type avatar (but not misleading) to protect your anonymity. Also be sure to use an online pseudonym, instead of your real name, until you get to know someone better. And mind your manners, and initially treat the subject of masturbation with metaphors. Persist and you will eventually connect with your Masturbation Soulmate.

https://badoo.com/

Plenty of Fish

An excellent interactive dating site that has replaced the now defunct CraigsList Personals. We strongly advise against paying for any of their "special features" as they're simply not worth it. Completely compatible with desktop computers, as well as smartphone apps, the website even provides for free video-chats, but via smartphones only. A typical dating site, men outnumber women 10:1, but the proportion of women on these sites is steadily increasing. But the site is plagued with "PoF Vultures" mature and senior women who have been on there for years, looking for "Mr. Right" but take time off to seek out and harass men and their intentions. And on the opposite end of the spectrum are men who turn out to be incarcerated felons who are always asking for money. Just saying.

If it's a Masturbation Soulmate you're seeking, be sure to compose and post an illustration-type avatar (but not misleading) to protect your anonymity. Also be sure to use an online pseudonym, instead of your real name, until you get to know someone better.

We advise against paying for "special membership" on any dating site, as we’ve been informed by one unfortunate soul that all of the hidden women, who had expressed an interest, immediately vanished after the online credit card payment.

And mind your manners, and initially treat the subject of masturbation with subtle metaphors. Persist and you will eventually connect with your Masturbation Soulmate.

https://www.pof.com/

OkCupid

An excellent interactive dating site that has replaced the now defunct CraigsList Personals. We strongly advise against paying for any of their "special features" as they're simply not worth it. Completely compatible with desktop computers, as well as smartphone apps, the website even provides for free video-chats, but via smartphones only. A typical dating site, men outnumber women 9:1, but the proportion of women on these sites is steadily increasing. But the site is plagued with "OkCupid Vultures" mature and senior women who have been on there for years, looking for "Mr. Right" but take time off to seek out and harass men and their intentions. And on the opposite end of the spectrum are men who turn out to be incarcerated felons who are always asking for money. Just saying.

If it's a Masturbation Soulmate you're seeking, an illustration-type avatar, to protect your anonymity, is not allowed on OkCupid. Also be sure to use an online pseudonym, instead of your real name, until you get to know someone better.

We advise against paying for "special membership" on any dating site, as we’ve been informed by one unfortunate soul that all of the hidden women, who had expressed an interest, immediately vanished after the online credit card payment.

And mind your manners, and initially treat the subject of masturbation with subtle metaphors. Persist and you will eventually connect with your Masturbation Soulmate.

https://www.okcupid.com/

Protect yourself!

As mentioned above, if it is in fact a Masturbation Soulmate you're seeking, be sure to compose and post an illustration-type avatar (but not misleading) to protect your anonymity. Also be sure to use an online pseudonym, instead of your real name.

If and when you do choose connect with a potential Soulmate, beyond those dating sites, it's a good idea to make sure your new and special contact is for real: Set up a Google Hangouts app on your smartphone. It's free, intuitive, easy on the smartphone resources, and provides for anonymous text messages, voice-chats, and video-chats.

Online Virtual Reality Meetups

And after you connect with someone, be sure to check out these free, virtual online meetups, with their amazing gardens and vistas. The perfect escape for those who are often pressed for time but still occasionally need one-on-one meetups and chats.

Second Life

Are you somewhat experienced and comfortable using a desktop computer or laptop?

If so, you might want to try a fun meetup in Second Life virtual reality site, just to chat, as most of us here have no interest whatsoever in their crowded gaming areas. For example, try enjoy dropping into one of their quiet but amazing gardens, complete with the soothing sounds of birds, running water, and windchimes. The perfect escape for those who are often pressed for time.

Windows 10 + 2GB CPU required. Sadly, not compatible with MacPros and smartphones.

http://www.secondlife.com/

Avakin Life

Or... if you prefer to use your smartphone for such things, Avakin Life is yet another fun virtual reality app that is smartphone compatible, for one-on-one texting meetups.Works quite well on smartphones. Similar to Second Life, plug in those earbuds and try enjoy dropping into one of their amazing gardens and resorts, complete with the soothing sounds of birds, running water, and windchimes. The perfect escape for those who are often pressed for time.

http://www.avakin.com/

 

Remember:

If you have not connected with other masturbation aficionados it is because you simply have not searched. Masturbators, unlike those who need partner sex, are far, far more likely to connect with and embrace you, and with far less demands on age, race, build, proximity, activity levels, lifestyles, and sexual preferences. Connect with someone and you will most certainly become their reason to masturbate.

 

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EroticGoddess

A masturbation aficionado for most of her adult life, she is quite arrogant about her vivid imagination and skilled fingers that never fail to satisfy her raging libido, while quite unimpressed with anyone else. Achieving orgasms exclusively via autoerotica, she also receives tremendous satisfaction denying her body to anyone who expresses an interest in her, although it's not uncommon for her to secretly honor them by mindfully teasing out an intense orgasm that same evening. While she thoroughly enjoys treasured moments of platonic intimacy, it's a rare man who is ever invited into her garden, and that's only to masturbate with her. And he will soon understand that she is not only fully capable of taking care of herself, but is very, very good at it. What does excite her is erotic literature, and real-life men who enthusiastically share in her masturbation addiction.

So to connect with her, be worthy.

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GallantSage

Also an avid masturbation aficionado, he is well equipped to fully enjoy the masturbation experience: He wears a size-large condom... and a loose-fitting size extra-large condom, fully lubricated inside, when masturbating. A master of fantasy visualizations, orgasm denial and edging, he would rather skillfully stroke his magnificent cock than sink it deep into an appreciative beautiful woman, making his masturbation-induced orgasms special events. What does excite him is that there is no sight more beautiful in the Universe than a masturbating woman, a real-life woman who enthusiastically shares in his masturbation addiction.

So to connect with him, be worthy.

GallantSage: autoeroticintimacy@gmail.com

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